Tuesday, June 5, 2012

"Happy Day", Sad Day

Well, I've had plenty to blog about, but haven't been able to find our camera in several days, so I haven't had pictures.  :(  I really hope I find it.  I don't go a day without taking pictures of the kids, usually.

Neely's been doing funny things lately.  She's added a "YEP!" to her "MMMMHMMMM!" thing.  Like this morning, she woke up just before 7, and started begging for daddy.  I kept telling her "Daddy went byebye."  She just cried, and kept pointing toward the living room, begging.  One time she went "Daddy?  mmmmHMMMM!  YEP!"  while she cried. 

The other day she also looked at Gia, who was lying on the living room floor, and said "Gia.  Horsey.  Cowboy." and climbed on her back to ride her.

 She added on to her "Thank you." also.  For a while she was saying "Thank you.  Happy!" when someone gave her something she wanted.  Lately she says "Thank you!  Happy day!"

And she counts to 6 now.  She is always learning from her siblings I guess.  She says "One, two, fwee, foy, fie, SICK!"

Yesterday wasn't my favorite day ever.  It wasn't like anything serious was wrong, but a bunch of little things.  To start with I didn't feel very good, Paige and I seemed to be getting a bug starting on Sunday.  Then we were hanging out in my room in the late afternoon, and Cason was playing with my hair.  After a while he told me "I'm just gonna cut OOOONE more."  So I turned around really quick and saw him holding a pair of scissors and an 8 or 9 inch long piece of my hair.  As soon as he saw my face his expression changed and he realized it wasn't a good thing.  Ha.  He got all nervous.  I just said "Oh, it's okay, I'm not mad at you, I just didn't want my hair cut.  You should NEVER cut someone's hair okay?"  He relaxed a little and smiled and said "sorry."  Thankfully it's a piece from underneath, but it does show when my hair's up.  I guess I'll just clip it up until it grows out.  In about a year.  Ha.

Then we drove downtown when Jess came home, and my dream house I always go look at is for sale.  For a price we could probably afford if I hadn't rushed into buying our current house.  That sent me into a depression for the night.  It's SO cool.  It has original wood floors, windows, almost all the doors with the awesome old style locks.  The yard is gigantic and Totoro-ish, and there's a cool little building that could be storage or a potting shed or a playhouse, probably the playhouse if we lived there.   A cute front porch that had me sold on it before I ever got the chance to peek in a window.  We were just driving by it a couple months ago, talking about how it probably wouldn't be available for a long time, and now it is.  I feel like it was meant for us, but we're pretty much trapped, so it must not be.  I really thought it was fate when I saw this little bell on the porch.  It would be a perfect dinner bell, and Paige is always asking me to ring a bell when it's time for them to come eat.  Ha.  How can it not be our house?  Don't some of you want to invest in a home and then let us rent it from you?  Ha.

When we came home and I was struggling to be happy, Paige was telling me "Well, let's not be sad about it, let's just save our money and then when we have enough we'll buy it."  I told her "Yeah, that's a great idea, but I'm just sad because someone will buy it long before we can save enough."  She  goes "Well, we should still try.  You shouldn't not do something, until you know if it works."  More wise words from Paige.

Since I have no pictures, here's one from a couple weeks ago I liked.  Gia and Cason were running around the yard wildly together, and then stopped to watch a lady walking her dog.

5 comments:

megs said...

Ah, that is hard. I know we all get where we are meant to be, but I totally understand the if only impulse. I'm not willing to give up my 6 years in my house and redo as a renter..... But man it would have been smarter to buy now. And we knew that then, so not like I can claim ignorance. You have exactly what you need, and have so much of you into your home, it was also meant for you. PS, so amazed at the hair cutting reaction, you are so good at mothering to focus on letting him know the rule and not in a mean angry way. I'm constantly checking myself and trying to remember to think about what she sees, more important than anything. Good job!!!

Brandi said...

Thanks Megan. About the hair too, I'm sure I lots of things the way I shouldn't, but the hair one was easy for me because I'm not very happy with my hair anyway. Haha. Well, I shouldn't say it was "easy", I was definitely not HAPPY about it, but I know it will grow back. Ha.

Sarah said...

I hope you find your camera! I wanna see some pictures :( Miss you guys!

Jennifer said...

I think I would have freaked out if one of my kids cut my hair. You are such a cool and calm momma.
Is there anyway you could rent out your home and buy the other one? Some mortgagers will allow it if you have a contract on your home with renters.

Brandi said...

We miss you guys too Sarah. :(

Thanks Jennifer. Thankfully it was just a small piece underneath. We THOUGHT about renting our house, but got nervous. We have pretty no extra money at the moment, and we'd be totally out of luck if anything went wrong with the house, and no way to fix it. Ha.