John passed away yesterday. Most people who read this probably knew him, but for those who didn't, he really was such a good guy. It really just hit me today I guess. All this time I kept from getting very sad, because I guess I really thought he was going to beat it. But today I suddenly realized, and I just keep crying on and off, feeling so sad for Jenni and the rest of the family, and just sad myself, too.
He always made me feel so welcome, like I belonged with their family, when Jenni and I were inseparable all through high school. He made fun of me plenty, but it made me feel loved and like a part of the family. Ha. He had mastered the balance between being his kids' friend and still being their dad, and he was always SO involved in their lives. I got lucky being Jenni's friend and playing softball too, because I got to have him as a coach. He laughed at us for being overly emotional when we played, but somehow he teased us without actually making us feel stupid. :)
I hadn't seen him as much the last several years, now that Jenni and I are grown and married with our own families. Of course I regret that now. But I really loved him and I'll miss him. I'm so sorry Jenni, and all the rest of you Bathauers.
7 years ago